How can I address the lack of intimacy in my marriage when my wife has no interest in sex but is otherwise wonderful?
If the lack of sex is a problem for you, this is certainly something you should discuss. Sit down with her and have a conversation about the lack of intimacy, and how it affects you. Use “I” statements to respectfully convey your viewpoint and tell her what you need. Also take time to listen to her perspective. What is most important is that you respectfully communicate to her that you need more physical intimacy from the relationship. Clearly state your needs, and ask her what she needs from you to make intimacy more regular.