How can I tackle my everyday marriage life problems?
It is important to try to see issues from alternate point of views. If you can understand why your partner is angry or hurt, it may open the door to an honest conversation.
Never give up sex for any reason as it increases intimacy on a hormonal level by releasing hormones like endorphines, dopamine, oxytocin and many others. If sex becomes hectic and difficult, plan it. This brings in excitement and expectations to the table. And then there is always quickie sex that can come in handy.
Couples can be working outside home and sometimes more than one job. During this time work chores can be a problem. Delegate work and have a schedule as to who is doing what. Write it down and be open to solutions and changes. If you both hate doing household chores, hire someone to avoid the conflict or share it with each other.
Clear communication is key when handling problems - sit down, look each other in the eye, and discuss your issues with respect for one another. When two people know each other well, it can be easy to assume that they know what you’re thinking or what you intend with your words. This isn’t always the case, and it is important to be clear with how our spouse makes us feel - the things that bother us and the things that make us happy.
Use your words to communicate clearly, not to attack or cut down your spouse. Conflict can be good and healthy in your marriage when you fight fair. It can tear your marriage apart if you are seeking to “win” arguments rather than reconcile with your spouse.