How do you deal with family being “polite but distant” about your LGBTQ+ relationship?

How do you deal with family being “polite but distant” about your LGBTQ+ relationship?

This was harder for me than open disapproval. Being tolerated but not really accepted hurts in a quiet way. I’m still kind of grieving that.

I eventually stopped trying to win their approval and focused more on chosen family. That shift helped my mental health a lot.