My husband is treating me poorly because we fought. What should I do?
It always boils down to communication. It sounds like there might be some unresolved issues that aren’t easy to surface, but until you do, they’ll continue to linger and might even build up over time. A great framework that I often refer to because of its simplicity and impact is the non-violent communication framework. In short, be very specific about what you observe when he treats you poorly and then tell him how that makes you feel and therefore, what you need from him.
The aim is to share how you feel such that you can both co-create a solution to move forwards. Listen to how he feels as well and remember that sometimes, people need to time so be patient and kind to yourself as well.