What are the rules for a happy marriage?
While there are no “must follow” rules in marriage, there are some general guidelines for insuring happiness.
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When angry at your partner, articulate the issues that upset you instead of assassinating your partner’s character. -
RESPECT your partner’s feelings at all time. While you do not have to agree with their viewpoint, itis vital to empathetically listen to what your partner has to say. -
Commit your marriage to date night. As often as it is feasible, step away from the daily grind and enjoy a night on the town with your beloved. -
Give your partner space to explore his/her vocation, spirituality, hobbies, etc.
There should be rites and rituals in your married life. This does not mean making prayers for 2 hours. Simple gestures that you do regularly that encourage love and affection means a lot in a marriage. Playing around before you could sleep regularly keeps you happy and regularly makes things interesting for you. A simple cup of coffee too helps.